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Cara2 Mengawal Nafsu Seks

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Post on 11-3-2007 09:16 PM |All posts

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Salam n Good day

Lately, I terfikir mengapa sesetengah manusia terjebak dengan seks terlarang manakala sesetengah org dapat mengawal nafsu mereka.

Seks terlarang tu kira yg dilakukan secara sendiri, dengan wanita, dengan lelaki, dengan haiwan, dengan alatan n lain2.

Boleh juga la kita bincangkan tentang kesan2 melakukan seks terlarang berdasarkan perspektif fizikal, mental, hukum (Islam, Hindu, Buddha, Kristian, Yahudi dll) dll.
Pastinya Dia Yang Maha Penyayang mahu kita mengecapi rahmat & nikmatNya dlm bentuk yg sebaik mungkin..
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Post on 11-3-2007 10:24 PM |All posts
more to physical and mental thing....

some men produce extra testosterones which made them having higher sex drive, violent and short tempered....which sometime may lead to rape.

some men produce average amount testosterones but suffer some traumatic incident in their which later lead to abnormal sexual behavior.....which usually involved torturing and other violent behaviors

some men are really average but indulge in abnormal sexual behavior due to peer pressure and the need to be accepted in certain group ....example..having sex with certain girl or certain number of girls.... to win the title "player"

some men over fantasizing sex and can lead to a really abnormal sex, they indulge in their fantasy so much their body actually yearning for it and all taboos and moral will be ignore just to satisfy the craving.... this usually happens if there's an overexposure to the medium which contains this subject .....example ...barn yard sex

some men are married and having a sexual partner but because lack of communication and openness, both spouses searches another source of sexual pleasure....this however can be solved through counsellings and change of attitude.

for the ways to actually stop normal/abnormal sex drive one must somehow investigate and review oneself and find the source of this yearning and craving, and somehow prevent it from taking over our lives, let us live our life not those craving and desires...and we can be happier and stable individuals

if one cannot resolve this issues then try seeking professional, help this very advisable, remember don't be shy and afraid, u doing doing this yourself because some problem are 100% biology which means the problem are coming from hormonal/chemical imbalance or others, which is necessary for the person to get medication to treat the symptoms.

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Post on 12-3-2007 12:06 AM |All posts
Berdasarkan kes2 haruan makan anak yg berlaku ke atas my students...

Terdapat vcd/ dvd lucah di rumah mereka...




ps... rasa nak ketuk2 mereka yg buat filem2 lucah tu...
Pastinya Dia Yang Maha Penyayang mahu kita mengecapi rahmat & nikmatNya dlm bentuk yg sebaik mungkin..
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Post on 12-3-2007 02:36 AM |All posts
seks terlarang biasanya berlaku bila fikiran dikuasai nafsu dan tidak dapat lagi berfikir dengan waras.mungkin ini terjadi disebabkan pendedahan kepada bahan2 lucah yg senang untuk didapati sekarang.benda tersebut akan meningkatkan rangsangan seksual seseorang dan menyebabkan dia selalu dahagakan seks.dengan ini nafsu pon bergelora setiap masa.nafsu ni jika tidak dikawal,ia akan mengawal kita.jadi,jika hendak mengawal nafsu,jauhilah dari selalu berkhayal tentang seks,mendapatkan bahan2 lucah dan berfikirlah secara waras serta amik berat akan hukum hakam agama berkaitan hal tersebut.sesungguhnya seks terlarang meruntuhkan nilai moral diri seseorang.
YAA-HOO!!
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Post on 12-3-2007 12:10 PM |All posts
Originally posted by fleurzsa at 12-3-2007 12:06 AM
Berdasarkan kes2 haruan makan anak yg berlaku ke atas my students...

Terdapat vcd/ dvd lucah di rumah mereka...




ps... rasa nak ketuk2 mereka yg buat filem2 lucah tu...



are you teacher??

hmm... if u think about it .... where did those porn maker get the idea to do those digusting/abnormal sexual video, maybe they have 2 -3 screws loose in their brain .....

[ Last edited by  fish_o7 at 12-3-2007 12:23 PM ]
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Post on 12-3-2007 05:10 PM |All posts
akum...im having this sex prob i think...
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Post on 12-3-2007 05:16 PM |All posts
onani ? or blakang mari..?
CEFIRO 9388
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Post on 12-3-2007 05:59 PM |All posts
cara nak kawal senang jer... kena banyak buat aktiviti luaran mcm bersukan, berjogging, pegi gym... jgn lak pi ronda2 shopping complex coz kat situ lagi la byk benda2 yg terdedah bole buat geraammmm
tengoklah avatarku sepuas-puasnya.....
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Post on 12-3-2007 06:06 PM |All posts
modal untuk bekal sebelum tidur..nanti tembak dinding
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Post on 12-3-2007 06:19 PM |All posts
i think the best is to start to do work physical activity...... and also try to make urself busy.... but then again all this is a quick fix.....so the best way always self realization and determination.... tackle the problem from the core not the outer layer....

yeahh desires and pleasure is god's gift to man kind... but over indulgent and uncontrollable sex drive is always a problem....and is always ugly
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Post on 12-3-2007 08:51 PM |All posts
aku x dpt tahan
ahhahahaha
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Post on 13-3-2007 01:32 AM |All posts
emmmmmmm
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Post on 13-3-2007 02:40 AM |All posts
Originally posted by WKQ9388 at 12-3-2007 05:16 PM
onani ? or blakang mari..?


ditujukan kt aku ke?
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Post on 13-3-2007 10:32 AM |All posts
Originally posted by tongkang_pecah at 13-3-2007 02:40 AM


ditujukan kt aku ke?

agaknye kot... kalau terasa la
tengoklah avatarku sepuas-puasnya.....
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Post on 13-3-2007 11:39 AM |All posts
aku pon tak dpt tahan benda ni beb...huhuh camne eh....klau da rasa mcm nk play sex masa tu....mmg nak sgt2 ler jawabnye...huhuh cume skang ni je da slow, sbb tade calon nak berentap atas katil...hahaha
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Post on 13-3-2007 01:41 PM |All posts
Originally posted by encik_hyper at 13-3-2007 11:39 AM
aku pon tak dpt tahan benda ni beb...huhuh camne eh....klau da rasa mcm nk play sex masa tu....mmg nak sgt2 ler jawabnye...huhuh cume skang ni je da slow, sbb tade calon nak berentap atas katil.. ...


encik hyper... ramai ke calon berentap atas katil dedulu?
tengoklah avatarku sepuas-puasnya.....
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Post on 13-3-2007 02:30 PM |All posts
Originally posted by rimau_taring at 13-3-2007 01:41 PM


encik hyper... ramai ke calon berentap atas katil dedulu?


ramai...........berentap ngan 10...............10 jari .....

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Post on 13-3-2007 02:36 PM |All posts
Originally posted by rimau_taring at 13-3-2007 01:41 P

encik hyper... ramai ke calon berentap atas katil dedulu?


adelaaa 2-3 org play-partner yg cool n hebat2...hohoh tp skang sume da membawa diri ke oversea...hahaha
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Reply #17 fish_o7's post

hahahahha 10 jari ke...hahah
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Post on 13-3-2007 04:02 PM |All posts
Originally posted by encik_hyper at 13-3-2007 02:36 PM


adelaaa 2-3 org play-partner yg cool n hebat2...hohoh tp skang sume da membawa diri ke oversea...hahaha


fuyooo pengakuan berani nie..
kenapa semua pegi oversea encik hyper?
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Post on 13-3-2007 04:32 PM |All posts
Originally posted by fleurzsa at 11-3-2007 09:16 PM
Seks terlarang tu kira yg dilakukan secara sendiri, dengan wanita, dengan lelaki, dengan haiwan, dengan alatan n lain2.



:gila:  dgn haiwan ?   may u specifik and provide instances. ten q.
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Post on 13-3-2007 05:33 PM |All posts
Originally posted by rimau_taring at 13-3-2007 10:32 AM

agaknye kot... kalau terasa la


x trasa tp nk tau la...if kt aku...aku jawab ler...
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Post on 13-3-2007 07:43 PM |All posts
Originally posted by fish_o7 at 12-3-2007 12:10 PM
are you teacher??
hmm... if u think about it .... where did those porn maker get the idea to do those digusting/abnormal sexual video, maybe they have 2 -3 screws loose in their brain .....


Yup, I am teacher...

Then, now my students r the grown up.  The oldest is 48 years guy.

You know...

Its a lie if I say... I dont have the temptation of doing sex..

Thanks to Allah... I still can use my brain..

Then, I hope for others not to do zina... but u know... if u cant prevent them join them...he he he he

I have my own approach though..

Solat time.. will continue later..
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Post on 13-3-2007 08:13 PM |All posts
Originally posted by tongkang_pecah at 12-3-2007 05:10 PM
akum...im having this sex prob i think...


Believe me, nobody can solve the problem but urself
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Post on 13-3-2007 08:19 PM |All posts
Originally posted by rimau_taring at 12-3-2007 05:59 PM
cara nak kawal senang jer... kena banyak buat aktiviti luaran mcm bersukan, berjogging, pegi gym... jgn lak pi ronda2 shopping complex coz kat situ lagi la byk benda2 yg terdedah bole buat geraam ...


Yup.. jln paling senang... jauhi drp perkara2 yg boleh membawa kepada peningkatan nafsu

Masalahnyer... sengaja cari pasal... ada ajer idea nak menyeronokkan diri dgn sumber2 seks..

lepas tu kata... I ni tak tahan godaan.. lemah...
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